Direct, one-to-one guidance for men who are newly single, stuck on the apps or simply out of practice. We improve your profile, photos, conversations and real-world approach—without scripts or pretending to be someone else.
Your first call is with Kaya.One-to-one · Online · Worldwide · English
What people see before they meet you.
“Back in the world” — the working title of every first plan.
The apps, expectations and pace feel different. We give you a clear way back in.
Improve the photos, profile and messages that determine whether conversations go anywhere.
Turn who you are in real life into a profile and first impression that actually represents you.
Build a realistic social plan that fits your personality, location and lifestyle.
The aim: a profile that feels like you, better conversations and more dates worth going on.
We go through every photo and line of your profile, rank what works, cut what does not and specify exactly which shots to take or retake.
Deliverable: a ranked photo order and a rewritten profile draft in your own words.
We review real conversations you have had, identify where they stall and rework openers, replies and the move to a date.
Deliverable: written feedback on your own message threads, plus a simple structure you can reuse.
How you look, sound and come across in the first minutes—clothing direction, grooming basics, posture, pace and eye contact.
Deliverable: a short, specific presentation checklist for your body, budget and city.
Planning first dates that suit you, handling the awkward parts, and finding realistic places to meet people offline where you actually live.
Deliverable: a date plan and a weekly offline plan you can genuinely keep.
Client file — illustrative example
Easy going guy who loves travel, food and good conversation. Ask me anything.
Rebuilding a life in Lisbon after ten years in London. I cook properly, run badly, and will argue about films. Tell me the last thing you changed your mind about.
Hey, how's your week going?
That photo at the market — Lisbon? I'm three weeks in and still lost.
We examine what people currently see: profile, photos, messages, presentation and approach.
You see exactly what is working and what is not.
We identify the weak points and make specific changes you can use immediately.
You leave with specific changes, written down.
You test the changes in real situations, review what happened and keep improving.
You test them in real life and we adjust.
Every engagement starts with a free 20-minute call. We’ll recommend the smallest option that fits—or tell you honestly if we’re not the right fit.
A focused review when one part of dating is holding everything up.
A joined-up update across your profile, photos, messages and first impression.
Structured guidance while you apply the changes in real situations.
DATING, ACTUALLY. is founder-led and one-to-one. Kaya remains accountable from the initial call through the final written plan.
No unnecessary hand-offs, and the scope and price are agreed before any paid work begins.
Founder-led · One-to-one · Worldwide · English
Private dating credit for a brother, friend or someone you care about. He decides when and how to use it.
From €195
Private Session or Dating Reset credit
A private 20-minute conversation about where dating is getting stuck and whether we can help. One-to-one, worldwide, in English.